live life FORever After

(Article by Dhaval Doshi now on he will post here :) )
Here is some value for life


Hey guys thanx for visiting my blog, by the way everybody is writing blog like someone for IT, some for TECHNOLOGY, some for GAMES, some for this SOME for that but I am writing this thing because for every above blog you need some sparx in your journey called life.



1. INTRODUCTION PART

There is one famous quote said by SWAMI VIVEKANAD that ‘ IF YOU ARE HERE IN THIS WORLD DO SOMETHING MARKEABLE OTHERWISE THERE WILL REMAIN NO DIFFERENCE BETWEN YOU AND TREES’

All of you will say that this quote is true but in the inner part of human brain there arises one question that will I succeed, is there too much risk?, what will my family members say about this nuisance etc, etc.



See I want to share a quote, an idea that ‘ITS YOU WHO WAS BORN, ITS YOU who WILL DO HARD WORK, ITS YOU WHO WILL GIVE EXAMS, ITS YOU WILL GET THE RESULTS, ITS YOU WHO WILL ENJOY, ITS YOU WHO WILL SUFFER’ if its only you then what the hell that matters with the famous saying in Hindi ‘SOCIETY WALE KYA KAHENGE?’

Life is not about just accepting things but sometimes or many times it can be said as changing the things as you like, as you love and as you desire.

Life has challenges accept it, life has difficulty face it, life is good life is also bad at many times .Life's not always fair, Sometimes you can get a crack even sliding down a rainbow but to be a successful person it is necessary to taste all the things.

2. ABOUT FAILURE

Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be.

Sometimes we fail in life not only in making money or doing business but also in love, in relations, in health etc. But there always exist two options with us either to QUIT or TO FACE it and be a leader with the hardship; it’s all up to us.

There is a book called THE SECRET in which there is a full explanation about the LAW OF ATTRACTION in life. OBVISOULSLY NOT THE LAW OF ATTRACTION MADE BY NEWTON. The LAW OF ATTRACTION here means that whatever comes to you in your life like success, failure, wealth, health BAD or GOOD is because of your feelings and belief that comes in your mind. The thing comes in your life because you have invited it into your life by just thinking of it repeatedly.

For Example, if you are late for an interview or for your class then you will think that please god AAJ KOI RTO WALA NA PAKDE YA AAJ MERI BIKE KA TYRE PUNCTURE NA HO but it will not be called incident if on the same day YOUR BIKE GETS PUNCTURED OR YOU ARE PROBABLY CAUGHT BY AN RTO OFFICER. The reason for that is you are thinking of that in your mind and your mind cannot recognise it is GOOD OR BAD for you, it’s just passes on the SIGNAL to the world called as MIND RAYS and your thinking will be attracted to yourself. THE THING IS ONLY THAT YOU ARE LIKE A BIG MAGNET IN THIS WORLD AND YOU WILL ATTRACT EVERTHING whether YOU THINK BAD OR GOOD it’s up to you.[Try to read Book "The Secret" it will help you more here]

Further POSITIVE THOUGHTS are a MILLION times stronger than NEGATIVE THOUGHTS so if you are positive thinker than you are the world in yourself.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN AN OPTIMIST AND PESSIMIST CAN ONLY BE SUMMARIZE IN JUST A FEW LINES,

Optimist: someone who figures that taking a step backward after taking a step forward is not a disaster, it's a cha-cha. ~Robert Brault

Pessimist: One who, when he has the choice of two evils, chooses both. ~Oscar Wilde

3. OUR SITUATION

Another thing is that with the human life is that although our BODY OR PHYSICAL PRESENCE is in PRESENT but our MIND OR MENTAL PRESENCE is either in PAST or somewhere roaming in FUTURE.

I just don’t know why people forget to live life in present. People are always asking about the good old days. I say, why don't you say the good now days? I remembered while I was starting my studies in CHARTERED ACCOUNTANCY (C.A) field, many of the people kept asking me KI YAAR TU PASS HO PAYEGA, YAAR ENTRANCE EXAM TOH HO JAYEGI BUT AAGE C.A BAHUT HARD HAIN like all. But guys just be cool, live life in today yaar. What is the meaning of living in future when you know that if you do the right things in present your future will definitely be good obviously with some darkness which can be removed with some CFL Light or some branded torch of happiness and confidence.
I can also add my experience here when i joined engineering all said me you will have to study day and night and its too hard but to be frank i today m ejoying more with friends then studies concentrate in class and understand the concept well thats it after that 1-2 reading are enough! - Pankaj :)

Just remember one thing If you worry about what might be, and wonder what might have been, you will ignore what is.

4. CURIOSITY

I really liked a wonderful saying by ALBERT EINSTIEN that “I HAVE NO SPECIAL TALENTS BUT THE THING IS I AM JUST PASSIONATELY CURIOUS’. Many of us while reaching somewhat of age of 20 or more lack curiosity to know more things, like the children have. Just take an example that when you were small and you were given a new toy or a new game whatever maybe how curious you were to know its function, to know its usage etc. If you don’t expect the fact then just see some little children around your home you will find what the word curiosity really is? Curiosity is good, it’s great it really helps to solve the problems easily.

Be curious always! For knowledge will not acquire you; you must acquire it.

5. CONFIDENCE

Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.

Be confident in every aspect of your life, because it’s an only tool that no one will take it from you not even your bad days. Here is a real life story for what you can say AS CONFIDENCE, DETERMINATION AND PERSISTENCE HO TO AISA.

In 1883, a creative engineer named John Roebling was inspired by an idea to build a spectacular bridge connecting New York with the Long Island. However bridge building experts throughout the world thought that this was an impossible feat and told Roebling to forget the idea. It just could not be done. It was not practical. It had never been done before.

Roebling could not ignore the vision he had in his mind of this bridge. He thought about it all the time and he knew deep in his heart that it could be done. He just had to share the dream with someone else. After much discussion and persuasion he managed to convince his son Washington, an up and coming engineer, that the bridge in fact could be built.

Working together for the first time, the father and son developed concepts of how it could be accomplished and how the obstacles could be overcome. With great excitement and inspiration, and the headiness of a wild challenge before them, they hired their crew and began to build their dream bridge.

The project started well, but when it was only a few months underway a tragic accident on the site took the life of John Roebling. Washington was injured and left with a certain amount of brain damage, which resulted in him not being able to walk or talk or even move.



"We told them so."

"Crazy men and their crazy dreams."

"It`s foolish to chase wild visions."

Everyone had a negative comment to make and felt that the project should be scrapped since the Roebling’s were the only ones who knew how the bridge could be built. In spite of his handicap Washington was never discouraged and still had a burning desire to complete the bridge and his mind was still as sharp as ever.

He tried to inspire and pass on his enthusiasm to some of his friends, but they were too daunted by the task. As he lay on his bed in his hospital room, with the sunlight streaming through the windows, a gentle breeze blew the flimsy white curtains apart and he was able to see the sky and the tops of the trees outside for just a moment.

It seemed that there was a message for him not to give up. Suddenly an idea hit him. All he could do was move one finger and he decided to make the best use of it. By moving this, he slowly developed a code of communication with his wife.

He touched his wife's arm with that finger, indicating to her that he wanted her to call the engineers again. Then he used the same method of tapping her arm to tell the engineers what to do. It seemed foolish but the project was under way again.

For 13 years Washington tapped out his instructions with his finger on his wife's arm, until the bridge was finally completed. Today the spectacular Brooklyn Bridge stands in all its glory as a tribute to the triumph of one man's indomitable spirit and his determination not to be defeated by circumstances. It is also a tribute to the engineers and their team work, and to their faith in a man who was considered mad by half the world. It stands too as a tangible monument to the love and devotion of his wife who for 13 long years patiently decoded the messages of her husband and told the engineers what to do.

Perhaps this is one of the best examples of a never-say-die attitude that overcomes a terrible physical handicap and achieves an impossible goal.

Often when we face obstacles in our day-to-day life, our hurdles seem very small in comparison to what many others have to face. The Brooklyn Bridge shows us that dreams that seem impossible can be realised with determination and persistence, Confidence, no matter what the odds are





This life is worth living, we can say, since it is what we make it.

Live life to the fullest, love it enjoy it have fun with it, play it and finally be yourself because you are the one specially made by GOD. Enjoy failure, live the moment of success, roam with friends, read books, play games etc. Because life is given by GOD to make a living and not to just to live.