Loveeeee:)

Hi friends,

This is my 1^st blog on Love and relationship. Without taking much of your time in credits and other stupid stuff, let me start away quickly (am I sounding like a TV anchor? :P)

LOVE- Quite a small word isn’t it? Although it is small, the meaning and the life changing experience associated with it by falling into it is definitely phenomenal. Why generally we say we ‘fall in love’? I believe that, we say ‘fall in love’ because if you find a good partner, then you and your partner will rise together otherwise you will literally fall in it. Quite bollywood style dialogue, isn’t it? But this is the actual meaning of falling in LOVE.

Coming to bollywood movies, we have always heard from SRK, Ranbir, and other star actors, that Love makes you complete. Trust me-It’s more than that. I believe, that It makes you feel at home. Let me give you a simple example. LOVE is when you have 2 options (a) To go out with friends and cherish your childhood memories (b) To go out with your partner to make new memories or for a walk, etc. Even though both of them are best options, but you tend to choose option (b), not because you have to but because you want to. This is not any kind of sacrifice, but you do it because you want yourself to be at home and option-2 gives you the feeling of being at home.

LOVE is about walking with your partner at night and talking your heart out. You can talk about anything. It might be an idiotic or senseless thing, but your partner will still listen because what really matters for him/her is to be with you and listening to you, irrespective of the content of the talk.

I won’t say that, Love is about sharing your Life. Love is about sharing your time or rather quality time in doing what you guys want to do together. It could be travelling, shopping (I know it’s only for girls J), Cricket (Now, that’s for guys J) or drinking or even nothing. The crux remains that, you want to do it together and you guys seriously don’t need anybody.

I can write much more examples about Love without getting tired, but I know you will get tired of readingJ. The reason I wrote these things is to let you know, that if you find such a person then please don’t let him/her go from your life. We as a human have the tendency to run away from commitment, but trust me, go ahead and commit to the person. There will be definitely fights, misunderstanding, differences of opinion on some matters, but if you guys don’t require anyone when you are with each other i.e. you feel @ home, then seriously close your laptop and call him/her and let them know, how much they mean to you and how much you care for them.

These are few of my personal experiences. I want to say only 1 thing; Love can’t be defined by any book, words or blog. It’s just a matter of feeling. If this blog has helped you in understanding your feeling, then don’t thank me, just be with your partner and make him/her smile. I will consider that as positive feedbackJ

This Blog is dedicated and inspired from my Bestie, BFF, GF, Wife and most importantly my Partner in Crime- Riddhi Dhaval Doshi…Love youJ

Sometimes we should consider doing the same things in a different way!!

Hi Friends,

I have recently shifted to Ghatkopar, Mumbai. From past 30 days I was observing a beggar sitting outside Ghatkopar station with her 2 year old kid. The lady just sits over there demanding money from every other person that passes through Ghatkopar station. However, yesterday night it was different, I went pass Ghatkopar station and I was not able to notice her so, I started moving towards my home but, then I stopped at a point and thought of going back to check that, whether she was there or not? So, I started moving backwards and what I saw was really shocking, the lady beggar was still sitting at the same place with her kid. I was unable to digest that fact that, I was not able to see her when I went pass Ghatkopar station. At that time I questioned myself that,why I was not able to notice her begging with her kid and the answer just came that, since she was doing the same activity in the routine old manner and probably if she did had changed the way of her begging or something like that then, I would have noticed her without any problem. 

 On that day, I understood some basic concepts of Life which I would like to share with you, 

1. If you want to get noticed then, you have to either do some different things or the same thing in a different manner and further, it's not just only about getting noticed but it's also about living life in a satisfactory manner by doing things in a different manner which will help you to stay excited and focused on your aim. 
2. We can learn from any person even from a beggar. 
3. We should have good observation and analytical skills at any point of time so, as to observe and learn from the people around us.

Aisa Kyun Hota Hai............

Kyun kabhi -kabhi hume apni hasi mein woh khushi nahi milti

Joh khushi dusro ki muskurahat mein milti hai

Kyun kabhi -kabhi burger khane mein woh baat nahi hoti

Joh baat purane dost ke saath ek vadapav khane mein hoti hai

Kyun kabhi -kabhi office ke air condition mein baithne par woh shanti nahi milti

Joh shanti barish mein khul ke bhigne mein milti hai

Kyun kabhi -kabhi hume naye logo se milkar woh khushi nahi hoti

Joh khushi purane logo ke saath baat karne mein milti hai

Kyun kabhi -kabhi CCD ki coffee mein woh baat nahi hoti

Joh baat tapari ek cutting chai mein hoti hai

Kyun kabhi -kabhi BMW mein sair karne mei woh baat nahi hoti

Joh baat purani cycle chalane mein hoti hai

Kyun kabhi -kabhi apno ko paraya banne mein jitni der lagti hai

Utni der parayo ko apna banne mein nai lagti

In saare “KYUN” ka shayad koi jawab nai hai. Isliye hi kehte hai ki,

Har Kyun ka jawab nai hota

Joh mil jate jawab toh har sufar itna suhana nai hota

Lekin yeh sach hai ki yahi sab "KYUN" hamare zindagi ki mithaas ko barkarar rakhne mein madad karte hain. So Just Enjoy them......:)

 (Thank you to my sis Ami Jain for helping me in editing this J)

Unpredictable Life

LiFe is seriously unpredictable. We don’t have any knowledge about what is going to happen in our life in the next minute. Nowadays, we hear & read that some or the other people die in accidents, in work etc every day or every minute. We seriously don’t know whether we will remain alive the next day to switch-off the alarm? Or whether we will be able to reach our home in the evening? Somebody has rightly said that, we are sent here on earth with limited prepaid balance & as and when the balance gets over we are bound to return back & we also don’t know the amount of prepaid balance that we own & still we use life time validity sim cards J. So, we have limited prepaid balance of life & the life itself is unpredictable & death is inevitable & hence, we should do something awesome during this so called limited prepaid lifetime so that, we can at least die in peace. We should live our life in such a way that, at the time of our death we should be able to cherish of each & every second of our life that was spent here on earth. For this feeling we & only we have to make an effort because nobody is going to live our life. Hence, we should try to follow some steps to make our life worth cherishing,

• Try not to postpone your work till tomorrow because we don't know about future
• Have a good balance of work & life: - Work is just a part of life. Your work will not come to your help you when you are sick, your family & friends will. So, work & also try to spend some quality time with your family & friends
• Don’t copy & paste:  - Try to live your own life. Don’t try to imitate somebody’s life. Try to be unique. Life your life with full energy & enthusiasm. Please don’t use Microsoft Word’s shortcut of CTRL c + CTRL v in your life.
• Don’t wait up to 40 years to start something new: - One of my friends told me that, he will start his hotel when he will be of 40 years but, does he know that whether he will live till 40 years? Nobody knows who will remain alive till that time, so do it what you love now. Start planning & executing for the same.
• If you love someone express it & don’t wait for the future. Don’t worry, if he or she is yours then, they will come to you otherwise you have board a wrong bus and you should try to move on J
• Don’t hate anyone, forget easily (obviously I am not telling you to forget the lesson). It was amazingly narrated by Will Smith that, “Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you & treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too”
• Make mistakes, Fail, get up & get going. Laugh when others cry, dance like nobody is watching you, listen music on open road, get wet in rain, roam in summers, enjoy the winters
• Try to make difference in somebody’s life by giving your helping hand. It was rightly said by APJ Abdul Kalam that, “I am not handsome but at least I can give my hand to someone”. Just help someone to find his or her happiness & it may also happen that you will also find your happiness in that matter. “Bolte hai jiske apne sapne pure nai hote woh dusro k sapne pure karne mei uski madad karte hai aur jiske haath madad k liye aage aate hai woh ishwaar ka sabse khaas banda ban jata hai”. So, help others & you will automatically understand the meaning of satisfaction in your life.
• Don’t leave but live life. Whatever it may take to live it. Don’t be afraid of future, don’t just exist but live, Get out of your safe zone & explore, become what you want to, become a chameleon-fit in anywhere, be a rock star-stand out everywhere. Get out of the stands and play the game of life. Don’t worry even you die doing it because at least after that you will not die by regretting the things not done or untried.
• Last & the most important thing, try to make the person happy whom you see every day in the mirror JJ whatever it may take to do that.

P.S:- I have written life as “LiFe” in the beginning of the blog cause, I wanted to show the unpredictability of this word & its meaning J. 

Live Life:)

Zindagi katne k liye toh kat hi jayegi

Umar guzarne se gujar hi jayegi

Khushi aur gum ka aanchal pakad kar chal

Fir dekh,Zindagi sambahlne se pehle hi haseen ho jayegi :)

Don't hide from life, live it whatever may be the consequences:)

It's never too late to say sorry:)

Is it late to say Sorry?

Hello friends, one of the interesting topics in today’s life is that, whether it is late to say I am Sorry to someone for our deeds and mistakes? Now, First of all I am not talking about evil or absolutely wrong deeds; I am talking about the mistakes that each and every human being makes during the time of making or maintaining a relationship.

It happens in our day to day life that we make mistakes (Not 1 but many), we act stupidly or do something that may affect our relationship with someone. Now, is it late to say sorry to that person after a year or so? I will say NO. Sometime, we take a hell lot of time to realize that we had did something wrong and we are really for sorry for the mistake that was made knowingly or unknowingly.  Remember that, the time you did that thing and somebody got upset and you felt kind of bad, but just let it run its course and never said a word about it again? There's still time to say you're sorry.

However, if you say sorry after some long time then, this thing may happen: -

• It may happen that the person is waiting for your sorry all this time and he or she will ultimately forget you and then, your relationship will become normal as it was before committing the mistake; 
• The person whom you are saying sorry may not consider you’re sorry i.e. he or she will still think that you are not apologizing from your heart. However, when you are really sorry from your heart then you should not care about thinking of that person because for you, the person and not his/her thinking matters. Remember at that time that, “Life is short, don't waste time worrying about what people think of you Hold on to the ones that care, in the end they will be the only ones there.” So, when you are really sorry from your heart then, you will do everything to make the person happy. I know that, it might take a lot of time and it may also happen that your relationship with that person may not remain the same as it was before making the mistake but, still when you are sorry from your heart and you believe it then, you are ready to face any consequences and you will try to get all the things on the track; 
• Now, the worst case scenario is that the person will not approve your sorry still you should say sorry because when you say sorry then, at least you are doing your work of apologizing from your heart. Further, you should learn that you will not commit the same mistake again and will try to change yourself in that area.

The thing is we’re all human and as filmy as it sounds, we all make mistakes. What matter more is how you deal with them. From inebriated accidents to practical jokes, our mistakes are everywhere.

Now, how should you say sorry for your mistakes,

• First of all tell I am Sorry by looking in the eyes of that person;
• Secondly tell why and what meant you think that you are sorry;
• Thirdly do something that can fix the situation if possible;
• Fourth explain why you said sorry now and not earlier.

However, you have to remember that saying sorry is a Nishkam Karma Yoga i.e. action without expecting result because all you can do is to try, be sincere. You cannot force other people to feel things that they cannot feel. At least if you try, you will have the answer and a clean conscience that you did try to put things right.

So, how late it may be, at least try to say sorry because that person & not your or his ego matters to you.

Sorry means you leave yourself open, to embrace or to ridicule or to revenge. Sorry is a question that begs forgiveness, because the metronome of a good heart won't settle until things are set right and true. Sorry doesn't take things back, but it pushes things forward. It bridges the gap. Sorry is a sacrament. It's an offering A gift.” 
― Craig Silvey, Jasper Jones

Abhi Bhi.........Kuch Baaki Hai!!!

Abhi bhi kuch daar mujme baaki hai..

Abhi bhi kuch zindagi mujme baaki hai...

Abhi toh sirf roya hu, Roo kar hasna baaki hai...

Abhi toh bas gira hu, Uthh kar sambhalna baaki hai...

Abhi toh bas samja hu, suljana abhi bi baaki hai...

Abhi toh bas dusro ko jana hai, khud ho janna baaki hai...

Abhi bi mujme kuch zindagi baaki hai...

Abhi bhi mujme kuch zindagi baaki hai...