Hey friends, have you tried to compare
yourself with others? Don’t say “No” as I know that, we all (Obviously
including me) have at some point or the other have compared ourselves with
other. But, have you asked question to yourself that, is it correct to compare yourself
with others?
Let me, explain you the concepts of
comparison,
1. Comparing yourself with others
This type of Comparison will mean that, you
are comparing profitability of a Manufacturing Company with a Service Provider
company and analysing the mistakes between such profit differences. Or that, you
are comparing Microsoft Excel with Microsoft Word and analysing that, why the
calculations don’t work in word but works in excel?
Guys, I know that this are vague examples
but just think it with your open mind that, comparing yourself with others will
mean that, you are just wasting your valuable time and further, the results
will also be vague or rather useless.
2. Comparing yourself with your past
Now, if you try to compare yourself with
your past then, it will definitely help you
This type of comparison means that, you are
comparing a company’s past balance sheet with current balance sheet. This will
help you realize that, what are the trends or growth patterns and the reasons
behind that growth. Or it will mean that comparison of Microsoft excel with Quick
office Excel and understanding the positive and negative sides of both of them.
I know that, this blog will be seen as just
describing CA and Engineering students. It’s, because of the fact that, I am
very much familiar with this both fields and thanks to my friends for being the
reasons behind my knowledge.
In simple terms I would like to explain
that, you are unique my buddy, don’t waste your time and efforts judging and comparing
yourself with others. God has made everybody unique. Don’t think that, “why that person is happier in job/work/life
than me?” Just remember that it doesn’t
mean that, since a particular good thing doesn’t happen to you at this time
then, it will never happen again. So, don’t compare yourself with others. But,
do compare yourself with your past that will help you to realize that where are
you going and what you want to do with your precious life.
So, when you are trying to compare yourself
with others then, just remember the following lines “Comparing myself with
others just makes me feel superior or inferior, never acceptable exactly as I
am. What a waste of time & energy! There has never been another person like
me since time began, so there is no need to compare and getting F****d up with
my life!!!”
Stop Comparing and Start Living
gr8 yaar......really a good one to read and understand......keep it up..!!
ReplyDeleteBy the way nice examples
ReplyDeletehey bro. Very nice.u also dnt compare ur self with other coz u r vry special.
ReplyDeleteA person Compares himself with others only when, he losses his chance to succeed to others.Now, sir can u please say that does life really gives u a second chance so, that we don't compare ourselves with others?
ReplyDeleteThanx for the comment.. By the way life does give a 2nd chance you just have to wait and watch.Mistakes do happen and its up to us what to do with our mistakes i.e either take it in positive way and learn from it or consider ourselves as loser and start comparing ourselves with others,like you are doing now. I have said in my blog that, each one of us are UNIQUE. so sir, don't worry and learn from your mistake and have a better life.
ReplyDeletenice one...
ReplyDeleteI too agree..never compare yourself with that of others..
Please Update your Blog Regularly. it's nice time reading it
ReplyDeleteNice one:-)
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